Conscious Dating

Find the Love of Your Life and the Life That You Love

What is Conscious Dating?

Do you want to find the love of your life but find that you’re scared and confused, afraid of failure and perplexed about how to succeed?

Conscious Dating® assists you in finding your lifetime partner by providing you a road map so you are able to go where you genuinely want and need to be.

In Conscious Dating® you will discover how to avoid the many pitfalls and traps that can hold you back in your journey to find your lifetime partner. You will learn effective principles, tools, strategies, and information you can use to find the life and relationship that you really want.

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Why Conscious Dating?

There are more single people today than ever in history — 101 million in the U.S., 46% of the adult population (37.5 million/28% in 1970)

  • Over 25% of households are single occupant households (17% in 1970)
  • 53% of households are married couples (70% in 1970
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Ten Principles of Conscious Dating

The Conscious Dating book covers the following principles in depth:

  1. Know who you are and what you want.
    Like an iceberg, we are typically aware only of the tip, while our success and happiness depends upon what lies below the
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The Fourteen Dating Traps

A “dating trap” is an unconscious relationship choice that results in an unsolvable problem in a relationship. Getting out of the trap often means leaving the relationship.

When you’re single, by practicing Conscious Dating® you can do a lot more than you realize to avoid

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From the Conscious Dating Blog

Top Ten Tips for Breaking Up a Dating Relationship

Here’s how to break up a dating relationship positively, kindly, and effectively: 1. Be able to clearly articulate your reason for breaking up. Realize it’s probably related to an unmet relationship “requirement” that is non-negotiable and preventing you from moving forward in this relationship. 2. Make an appointment to talk. Ask to meet with your […]

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Dating With Baggage

FAQ: When I meet a guy (or gal) I like, things go well until they learn about my (insert your baggage here) and then I don’t hear from them again. Should I take care of (insert your baggage here) before I date again? Should I not tell my dates about (insert your baggage here)? How […]

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12 Year Anniversary Follow up

We just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary and a lot has happened since our 10 year anniversary post, so here’s an update. When the kids went off to college and we had an empty nest, we sold our house and have been living on our boat since 2017. More about that here. This photo is […]

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What People are Saying About Conscious Dating

  • 5
    This book is filled with practical strategies that work. Packed with solid advice, assessments and exercises, as well as interesting stories, Conscious Dating is a book that will completely change the way singles view dating and relating. (more…)
    Eve Eschner Hogan
    Author
  • 5
    Conscious Dating teaches that you don’t have to struggle as a single. It doesn’t have to be so “hard.” This book helps you to be proud of being single, what you can accomplish, and the gift you are to the world. (more…)
    Denver Hudson
    Terre Haute, IN
  • 5
    I am completely enjoying, applying, and achieving good results from what I’m learning in Conscious Dating. You and your team are wizards in relationships and true gifts to us singles in today’s world.”
    Susan Race
    Exton, PA
  • 5
    I just love this book, it makes so much sense to me. I am looking for my life partner and now I have a good tool to help me find him. I just ordered a book for a friend. Thanks so much.
    Elaine Kurtanich
    Carnegie, PA
  • 5
    Conscious Dating is the best book on dating that I have ever read. I can hardly put it down! As a minister I am going to recommend it highly to the singles that I know in our community. (more…)
    Jeffrey R. Burns, M. Div.
    Raleigh, NC
  • 5
    Conscious Dating gives readers a comprehensive overview, specific skills, and total reassurance that having personal “Requirements” is realistic and should not be compromised. This book is like having a pilot’s check-sheet, (more…)
    Ilene L. Dillon, MFT, LCSW
    Marin County, CA